• Melllvar@startrek.website
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    2 years ago

    Remember Valentine’s day 2004, when San Francisco county started issuing marriage licenses to same-sex couples?

    Thousands of couples showed up. Some from the other side of the planet, some from the other side of town. The County Clerk was overwhelmed and there weren’t nearly enough wedding officiants to keep up. So they put out a call for volunteers to be deputized by the Clerk as county marriage commissioners. I volunteered and officiated at dozens of ceremonies at city hall.

    Still have my official commission hanging on my wall.

  • PizzaFacia@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    Going to talk therapy. Getting married and having kids really pushed me and helps me keep going on the hardest days. I cannot have mental illness affect their lives like it did mine growing up.

  • tcrash@lemmy.world
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    2 years ago

    Brushing my teeth. I’ve been through progressive hard depression from an early age. Yeah. It’s not much

  • Nate@programming.dev
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    2 years ago

    I’m 20. I haven’t made it big but I’ve moved into a place with my best friend, have paid off my car without help from my dad, have a steady job making good money, can work on my own car, and have friends that make good company. I’d say I’m proud from getting all of this in the 2 years since high school

  • eightpix@lemmy.world
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    In 2007, I, a non-white non-Korean, took a job in South Korea. Then, I took another. Then, at the third job, I was hired, but the owner’s brother was amenable to some of the more racist thoughts that guided the approach to business in SK. He thought I would hurt the business. He resisted hiring another non-white, non-Korean.

    The owner asked me to write a letter. Instead of saying, “that’s not my job”, I wrote the letter. I made the case. They hired another non-white, non-Korean after me.

    I’m still pretty proud of that letter.