• OldChicoAle@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    As a gay man, I had some of the best sex with a man that turned out to be a little cray cray. His place was immaculate but he freaked out on me after one hookup. Granted, I did cancel our second date, but no need to get weird about it. Blocked. Never driving around his place again either.

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      1 month ago

      Yeah I dated a girl for 3 years that was amazing sex. Not worth the emotional abuse though.

      Also I guess I shouldn’t have prefaced this with just women being like this. I’ve heard the same about men.

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        1 month ago

        was she honest about her issues or did she manipulate you? was she working on it?

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          She was not honest and was not working on it. I was just hopeful it would magically get better. Because I’m stupid and figured it had to if I just kept working on it and being a good boyfriend. But I know now there wasn’t much I could do.