Is that Kyle MacLachlan? What’s he doing in that bear’s vineyard?

Turtrucken

It’s a single language and for English speakers, but Practice Portuguese says it’s made in Portugal and run by an LDA there.

It has some gamification elements if you want, but isn’t intrusive about it if you don’t want that.

… What’s git merge look like?

Mental prosthetics. Basically set up systems when you’re capable to support when you’re less so.

For your frugality example, lower the limit on your card, never save it for future use on a website, remove it from your wallet and put it in an inconvenient place. Next time you get impulsive, you’ll have to overcome the inertia of having to do extra steps and it’ll be harder to drain your bank accounts.

For things you want to do, reduce the friction. I have wet erase magnets that I write my todos on so I have a physical reminder if I forget between one room and another.

The one about sitting posture is fun, too.

Each container sk8s right off the deck.

Lol, I’m surprised it only took two days.

Just me or is the single speech bubble loop in the 4th panel weird?

I’m having luck with floor sitting as well, though that’s might not work as well if you’re stuck in an office.

Now find the missing semicolon I won’t tell you where it should be.

Redlining in neutral is how I like to describe it.

Does “Shine your sink” ring a bell for anybody else?

It’s pretty rare to be able to decide what to hyperfocus on. Without meds, work puts me to sleep.

Until his coffers run dry and then a little more.

Comorbidity! Yay.

No, you need adjust your expectations. She’s going to interrupt you. Stop taking it personally. That’s your issue, not hers. And don’t act like ADHD is a moral failing with that “improve ourselves” ableist crap. It’s a disability, not merely an inconvenience. If you actually have ADHD that’s bad enough to be diagnosed and medicated, you should know solutions that require sustained effort will never work. If that is a new concept to you, please watch this video, save yourself some mental burdens and negative feelings, and have a better relationship https://youtu.be/4gdpvLQjdrE

Is your wife doing it on purpose? If not, why do you get hurt by it? That seems like way more a you thing than a her thing because you’re placing unreasonable expectations on her to mitigate your negative emotions. The work of both changing her behavior (difficult) and managing your emotional state (impossible) are both put on her plate. That’s what I think is crappy about how you’re describing it. Using your BPD example, it would be like you handing your credit card to somebody in a manic episode and expecting no charges on it and then feeling betrayed and blaming that feeling on the other person when that expectation is unmet. Put a credit limit on the card. Do some CBT about your feelings.

I don’t think having symptoms is rude in the same way I don’t think being an amputee is rude or being depressed is rude. Putting that you feel undervalued on your partner because of their symptom is something I would, however.

For me, it’s draining the the point of not being able to do further mental effort for hours after. If you told me to give up my day to reassure, amuse, or otherwise tend to you, I’d tell you to take a hike.

I feel sorry for your wife for being looked down upon as rude for not being able to meet your standards and for not being partnered with somebody that can feel empathy for her.

I’m not quite sure how to say this without coming off as a jerk, but I don’t think it’s admirable that you want others to choose their own discomfort over yours.

Edit: Figured out a better way to say it: Please don’t come into an ADHD community and praise people for how normal they can be because you don’t like when they’re not normal.