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  • There must be a psychological term for this - assuming your good fortune is actually earned through merit. It applies to many other aspects of life.

    Attractive people think they’re desirable because of their personality them because of their personality.

    Healthy people think their health us due to their active lifestyle or nutritious diet.




  • I reject the premise!

    There is no safe or unsafe. It’s more like “more safe for a given person”.

    Your friend’s system is better than using the same password everywhere. It’s more difficult to hack than the majority of passwords that aren’t generated by password managers. If that’s what your friend likes and works for them well, fine I guess.

    It wouldn’t work for me because:

    • it doesn’t input the password for you. Does your friend really type passwords in all the time?
    • IDK if my memory is particularly bad but having to remember anything at all is hit and miss. Like I could remember those characters that are used everywhere, but for the router at my mum and dads house that I haven’t accessed in 5 years, was it “mums router” or “router mums house
    • Also I manage multiple passwords for the same sites, as in credentials for my partner or whatever, but I guess I could make variant of this system.
    • also if I were to die the person who sorts out all my stuff will have access to my passwords
    • but the main reason is… I use my keepassxc db as a database for all sorts of things which aren’t necessarily passwords. ssh keys are a good example. I use it for TOTP. bank card details. membership numbers and government ids. VIN numbers for vehicles. Also, a weird one, I have to keep track of about 100 physical keys for reasons, I stamp a number on them like k32 and then store that number and an explanation of what it’s for in my db.








  • Yeah. IDK how people can fit cheating in to their life.

    I just don’t have that much time apart from my spouse I guess.

    Also I’m not particularly attractive I guess so even before I was a balding 40 something I’ve never encountered someone who wanted a quick fuck in the broom closet or whatever.

    I’d like to believe I’m a non-cheater, but what I’m saying is that’s never really been tested.

    Also having kids changed things. I wouldn’t want to betray my partner, and that’s very important to me, but it’s a lot more important to me to not mess up our young family. My spouse and I are romantic partners, but we’re also a parenting team.








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    28 days ago

    I’ve been 20 for most of my 43 years.

    However, we had twins recently. They’re 18 months old and we all co-sleep. I don’t want to be a prudish family where kids aren’t allowed to see a bum or whatever, but I also don’t want to feel weird about snuggling up together.

    So… I’ve been wearing pyjamas just to avoid any awkwardness.