The genital kind.

  • JayleneSlide@lemmy.world
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    2 months ago

    I had a partner with genital HSV-1. YMMV, but in general:

    • No BFD; the stigma of HSV is the result of a marketing campaign in the 70s (not 100% on the date) by a company selling HSV treatments
    • Be honest and inform your prospective partners; yeah, some people who haven’t done the reading are going to react negatively
    • Antiviral treatments are available; the one my partner was a daily pill
    • In eight years of unprotected sex with her, she never had an outbreak and I test negative
    • You may never have another outbreak, you may have regular flare-ups, or something in between
    • Talk to your doctor and any take all of my previous comments like the Internet rumor it is
    • Snot Flickerman@lemmy.blahaj.zone
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      2 months ago

      Some people have more outbreaks and more painful outbreaks than others. It’s helpful to take an antiviral that suppresses the outbreaks. When there are no outbreaks, chances of transfer are low but not zero. It’s tends to be higher risk for the penetrated party rather than the one doing the penetrating. Since she never had an outbreak and the penetrated party is less likely to transfer, this may be why.

      Frankly, though, like all viruses, long-term effects can be kind of scary, like the evidence of a correlation with higher rates of alzheimers and dementia in patients HSV-I/HSV-II. Viruses do a lot of things to the body long-term that may not be readily obvious or related directly to the virus itself, much like human papillomavirus is correlated with higher instances of cervical cancer and throat cancer. Long-COVID is another example.

      While transfer probability is low, it’s still valuable to try to stop transmission by using prophylactics.

    • FATALRPG@sh.itjust.worksOP
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      2 months ago

      Thank you. I’ve been flashing back to high school sex and feeling a little gross about myself, but your comment is really comforting.