VirusMaster3073@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 4 months agoWhat were you surprised to learn wasn't actually normal?message-squaremessage-square83fedilinkarrow-up14arrow-down10
arrow-up14arrow-down1message-squareWhat were you surprised to learn wasn't actually normal?VirusMaster3073@lemmy.world to Ask Lemmy@lemmy.world · 4 months agomessage-square83fedilink
minus-squaremorrowind@lemmy.mllinkfedilinkarrow-up0·4 months agoIt’s not that bad for me, but fear of being perceived, fear of being know… It’s all a giant mess
minus-squareViskio_Neta_Kafo@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up0·edit-24 months agoFor me at least I think has is something like: If I’m odd and they don’t know me I’m just an odd customer. But if I’m odd and a regular than I’m an odd person they are thinking about a lot and that makes me nervous like I might mess up.
minus-squarenotanapple@lemm.eelinkfedilinkEnglisharrow-up1·4 months agoExactly this with me too. If they know me I have to hold myself to different standards and more small talk and stuff like that. I have been trying to force myself to go to the same places but I usually fail. The only thing that works for me is going with someone else.
It’s not that bad for me, but fear of being perceived, fear of being know… It’s all a giant mess
For me at least I think has is something like:
If I’m odd and they don’t know me I’m just an odd customer. But if I’m odd and a regular than I’m an odd person they are thinking about a lot and that makes me nervous like I might mess up.
Exactly this with me too. If they know me I have to hold myself to different standards and more small talk and stuff like that.
I have been trying to force myself to go to the same places but I usually fail. The only thing that works for me is going with someone else.