You might need to be more specific, since there is a new wave of former redditors joining.

As a former redditor, who joined ~2 years ago, it was very friendly and wholesome when I joined, but has been getting more toxic in recent times.

Y’all are way nicer.

The views expressed are more to the left and much more anti big-tech, which makes sense. Discussions are a bit more civil on average and there seems to be much less blatant karma-farming. At least that’s the case on my instance, which blocks some of the more… controversial ones. Speaking of which though, the differences between various instances do shape discussions on Lemmy quite a bit, which Reddit of course doesn’t have. You can often have a pretty good guess on a user’s attitudes, political views and demeanor just by looking at their instance.

One thing I’ve noticed is that I’m not met with slurs or death threats every time I post to an android related community. I always hated posting to android related subreddits because of this, especially considering the fact that the mods would punish me instead of the ones being vulgar/aggressive towards me.

So far the only thing the only “bad” thing that I can recall happening to me in an android community here on Lemmy was that a post I made was removed for “not being specific enough to android”. I personally think that Lemmy isn’t popular enough yet to justify doing that but I do understand their decision.

It’s like Reddit from 18 years ago, if everyone then had kept expecting it to work like Reddit from 18 months ago.

Early Reddit had no subreddits, and then it just had a handful of major ones—it wasn’t until it got a much larger user base that all the thousands of niche subreddits became viable. (There were still plenty of conversations about niche topics—they just took place within larger subreddits instead of dedicated subreddits with their own associated infrastructure.) But ex-redditors on lemmy expect those fine-grained niche communities to work right from the start, before there are enough users to keep them all active.

(I wonder if one solution might be for every community to have a designated “parent” community, where if activity falls below a certain threshold, posts and subscriptions get temporarily redirected to the parent community until activity picks up again.)

A lot less conversations about whether ChatGPT was an asshole at his cousin’s wedding

Lemmy is far more left than reddit which is impressive because I already felt reddit had a hefty left wing bias. I didn’t know how much more left you could get until I got here lol.

The userbase is a much less varied. Being more skewed towards the extremely progressive and tech savvy “nerd” types. Which makes sense.

The quality of conversations here seems better. More actual responses and less “meme dunking” karma type comments.

Far more positive and civil; people actually engage in their replies instead of the stream of recycled quips. Bad faith discussions usually get called out as such; less astroturfing.

Small-ish forums probably help with that too since users run in the same circles and there’s less overall “noise.” It’s also much more imperative to comment on posts since there may not be much engagement otherwise.

I never comment on posts >100 comments. They’ll never get seen. Here? There’s a good chance to reply.

People are usually a lot less toxic here, conversations are more civil.

Most comments mention this, I feel less amount of information (even on ‘nerd’ topics) and more repetition of same idea/meme. I still use reddit (without account) to find useful info.

Back in reddit days I used it more than I use lemmy nowadays. In many communities, doom scrolling will soon lead you to posts months old here, which is I guess a good thing in some way?

Also this place isn’t as congested as reddit so virtually no annoyance like bots and shilling and scams going on.

Things are smaller and more intimate (in that I can recognize more usernames).

I’ve blocked more users here than on Reddit though. Mostly just users that are annoying/spamming/give me really weird vibes. Actually, I don’t think I blocked any users when I was on Reddit.

You can tell that Lemmy houses Reddit refugees…and some of them are refugees because they were completely banned on Reddit, and likely deserving, lol

There are less women here and that’s really saying something

My mom is the target of a significantly smaller proportion of the community here. Maybe they’re younger here.

Fewer bots. Its feels like the early days of reddit