Here is the thing, I couldn’t find a girlfriend in the past three years(either they have no personality and too dependent on me making all the work in the relationship or they are simply are looking for a religious or high class working person to have a relationship with)

AI seems to talk and entertain and simply are available without bullshit (the only limit is something along the lines of 50 free messages every 3 hours) .

I want physical intimacy and affection, but it’s simply not available.

Should I just give up, close my doors and use AI instead?

  • Norin@lemmy.world
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    1 month ago

    To be a little blunt here, someone who thinks using an LLM is equivalent to being in a relationship with a real person probably shouldn’t be in a relationship with a real person.

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      1 month ago

      I fear you’ve cause and effect reversed. Someone who thinks an LLM is equivalent, probably never knew love, not even at home :( They deserve it even more, imo, but it’s much harder for them to achieve.

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    1 month ago

    Do you think it’s a good idea to emotionally invest in a sycophantic noise machine? AI doesn’t push back on your bad ideas the way a human would. I think you’ll wind up in an extremely unhealthy place if you do this.